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Are you living the lie?

Are you living the lie?

A happy life can’t be derived from pretense. 💔

Living up and down to others expectations won’t get you there.
Your life is yours and has to be lived on your terms.
I get that you don’t know how to do that yet. 😑

I get you’re still constantly criticizing yourself.

Judging your face, your body, your voice, how you dress, what you eat, how much you earn…

Anything and everything about you.

You comparing yourself to others out here is going completely out of hand.
Because…

One more look at an arranged Insta pic and you’ll delete your account. 😣
One more attendance at a “how successful I am webinar” and you’ll become nauseous. 🤢
One more over promise on how easy it is “in six weeks” and you’ll start crying. 😞

You’re starting to feel like you’re reaching a limit. ⛔️
A limit of how much pretending and BS you can take. ❌
From yourself and from others. 🚫

You’re starting to get to the point where you KNOW it’s mostly a facade.
You’re getting to the point where you KNOW this truth ↙️

You’re playing along in a game.
Participating in someone else’s story
and the only way you can pull out of it is this: ↙️

You’ve got to stop pretending! ↙️
✨ It’s non-negotiable. ✨ 🤞🏽🤞🏻🤞🏼🤞🏾🤞🏿

Join my webinar on Sunday, I’m fed up too!

One or perhaps even two lucky women will get a taste of what it’s like to work with me. Is that you?
Register here to be able to attend and have a taste of what a body confidence shift can be like. 🙂

https://webinar.getresponse.com/k9/taste-the-visible-body-confidence-shift-1

Stella Scott

I guide accomplished women develop unshakable self-confidence through finding and trusting their truthful self. What my friends and clients say: Discerning, calm, cool and warm out of the box thinker, receptive, analytical, energizing and inspirational. They also say I'm fast, honest and effective. What I say: Happy to the core, while also challenged greatly by life and living. Gifted with a very curious brain and constantly exploring. My highest value in life is to assist others. I get a kick out of watching people change in front of my eyes!

This Post Has 8 Comments

  1. Anna / Boihusbil November 8, 2018

    Sorry to sound decent but I honestly do not compare myself to anyone else anymore. Did before, but I have stopped. I am who I am and I don’t want to be anyone else. This is the only way for me to live a happy and healthy life.

    1. Stella Scott November 8, 2018

      So, what that really means is that this post isn’t aimed at you Anna, and you know that. 😃
      Most women do play the pretend game though. I know because she ends up as my client, sooner or later…

  2. erez November 8, 2018

    great insight! ill have to digest the information and take it into consideration

  3. Tess November 8, 2018

    This really spoke to me. Thank you Stella for your wise words.

    1. Stella Scott November 8, 2018

      With love and compliments dear Tess! 🙂

  4. Helena Roth November 8, 2018

    I am so happy to say, this post isn’t directed at me either. It would, if it had been 10+ years ago that I read it. But now…. no. I don’t compare myself. I don’t belittle myself. I practice self-honoring myself and the results are amazing, because boy does it ever save energy!
    <3

    1. Stella Scott November 9, 2018

      YES, Helena, the ENERGY waste is just too much! I’ve been there too so just like you I know the difference on my own skin. 😀

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