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You’re here to be you!

You’re here to be you!

You’re not here to measure up. You’re here to be you!

But you do need to know who you are.

You won’t know yourself by following the rollercoaster of living up and down to others expectations.

Others expectations of what you’re supposed to wear,
your weight,
your profession,
your spiritual practice,
or who is lovingly tending on you when you have the flu.

To be you is to come home.
And to come home will be such an unexpected magical relief. 😌 💓👑

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Stella Scott

I guide accomplished women develop unshakable self-confidence through finding and trusting their truthful self. What my friends and clients say: Discerning, calm, cool and warm out of the box thinker, receptive, analytical, energizing and inspirational. They also say I'm fast, honest and effective. What I say: Happy to the core, while also challenged greatly by life and living. Gifted with a very curious brain and constantly exploring. My highest value in life is to assist others. I get a kick out of watching people change in front of my eyes!

This Post Has 20 Comments

  1. Lori Ferguson October 5, 2018

    Oh, yes. Time for solitude and reflection are a necessary part of knowing yourself! Even when our children were young I’d be sure to schedule some time to recharge and reconnect with the “who” I am designed to be.

    1. Stella Scott October 5, 2018

      Less Facebook, more me time! 🙂

  2. Minette Riordan October 6, 2018

    Love this Stella. A beautiful reflection to take me into the weekend: To be you is to come home.
    And to come home will be such an unexpected magical relief.

    1. Stella Scott October 6, 2018

      Welcome here Minette! I wish you a lovely weekend spent in your own glorious company! 😀

  3. Angel October 6, 2018

    What wonderful inspiration. Thank you for this!

    1. Stella Scott October 6, 2018

      Thank you, Angel, for the lovely feedback! 🙂

  4. Martha D October 6, 2018

    I have always been the one to “do my own thing” and don’t worry about keeping up with others.

    1. Stella Scott October 6, 2018

      That makes you a good role model for other Martha! 🙂

  5. Kendall Scott October 6, 2018

    Wonderful reminder, Stella, “to be you is to come home”

  6. Therese Carlsson October 6, 2018

    Jag är inte så bra att översätta engelska till svenska men det jag har förstått är väl att man ska känna sig hemma i sin kropp. Kan inte engelska 😊..

    1. Stella Scott October 6, 2018

      Det handlar om att inte leva upp eller ner till andras förväntningar. Du är du och du bestämmer i ditt liv! 🙂

    1. Stella Scott October 6, 2018

      That’s it Charlotte. 100% you, that’s what it’s about!

  8. Lillan Kind October 6, 2018

    I have been me since the first moment I opened my eyes in this world, but good knows it isn’t easy…When you don’t fit into the frame you are inevitabely considered different. No matter how much in a good way, different is still different…

    1. Stella Scott October 6, 2018

      So funny! I just published a vlog for today about how I’m different. Because I am. So we’re like two peas in a pod! 😀

  9. Mirre October 6, 2018

    Förstår engelska men tycker det är lite svårare då bloggar står på eng. Men antar att du menar att man ska acceptera sig för den man är och stå upp gör det

    1. Stella Scott October 7, 2018

      Framförallt menar jag att ingen är här för att leva upp eller ner till andras förväntningar. Det är DITT liv, ingen annnas. 🙂

  10. Anna | Boihusbil October 7, 2018

    An important reminder – to be as you are. No matter who you are. No one else can or should dictate your life terms. Not always easy. But very important.

    1. Stella Scott October 7, 2018

      And yet, most people try to be something, someone they are not… 😔

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